1. Member Safety in the Facebook Group

Our Facebook group is here to spark real-life connections, not to replace dating apps. We work hard to keep it safe and positive, so here’s how to help us do that:

No DM sliding before you’ve met.
We’re here for face-to-face connections first. Sending a direct message to someone you haven’t met at an event is a no-go. Keep the conversation in the public threads so everyone feels safe.

Start in the open.
If someone catches your eye, have a chat on a public post. Ask which events they’re going to or share where they might bump into you next.

If someone does DM you…
Haven’t met them yet? That’s against the rules. Let us know — they’ll get one warning, and a repeat means removal. If you start chatting privately before meeting, we’ll need to ask you to leave too.

After you’ve met in person…
You can send a friend request or message, but remember — not everyone wants to connect outside the group and that’s totally fine.

Growing together.
The group is evolving every day, and we all play a part in keeping it friendly, fun, and safe.

2. Member Safety at Our Events

Our events are designed to be relaxed, inclusive, and fun — with a side of sparkle! To make sure everyone has the best possible experience:

Be kind and respectful.
Treat every guest, host, and venue staff member with the same friendliness you’d want in return.

Consent is cool.
Whether it’s a handshake, a hug, or a photo together — always ask first.

Mind your words and actions.
Keep the chat positive and avoid comments that could make someone uncomfortable. If someone isn’t interested, respect that and move on with a smile.

Follow the venue’s vibe.
Every venue has its own rules — from dress code to photography. Always ask before taking pictures of anyone, and check they’re happy for you to share them.

Speak up if something’s not right.
If you feel uneasy, find a Solo Connects host straight away. We’re there to help, and we’ll always listen.

Look out for each other.
We’re a community — so if you see someone looking a bit lost, alone, or uncomfortable, be the friendly face that helps them feel at ease.

3. Member Safety When Meeting People for Dates Outside Solo Connects

If you decide to meet someone one-to-one after connecting through Solo Connects, here are a few smart, simple ways to keep yourself safe:

Have a quick check-in first.
A phone or video call before meeting can help you feel more comfortable and confident about who you’re meeting.

Pick a public spot.
Choose a busy café, bar, or other open place for your first meet-up. Save the quieter settings for later, when you know each other better.

Let someone know.
Tell a friend where you’re going, who you’re meeting, and what time you expect to be back. Share your live location if you can.

Keep personal info personal.
You don’t need to share your address, workplace, or other private details until you feel totally comfortable doing so.

Trust your gut.
If something doesn’t feel right, you’re allowed to leave — no explanation needed. Your safety comes before politeness.

Enjoy the moment.
The best dates are relaxed and pressure-free. Be yourself, take your time, and remember: a good connection will never rush you.