Sick of swiping?

Looking to meet people in real life? You're in the right place!

Your mates are all coupled up. You're the third-wheel on

nights out. The last time someone set you up, it was

a disaster. And let's not even go there with terrible

online dates.

All you want is fun nights out with people who get it.

Again, you're in the right place.

Solo Connects offers in person dating events for people in

Milton Keynes, Bedford, Northampton, Warwickshire, Berkhamsted & Hertfordshire.

If you're looking for friendship OR dating, we've got something

for everyone.

We'd love for you to join us!

What Solo Connects events are right for me?

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Singles Dating for over 40's

Hugely popular events and typically get up to 100 people attending. It can be quite busy and noisy, but you'll meet lots of singles in your local area.

Speed Dating Sunday!

We run speed dating Sundays every month - each time we will focus on a different age group.

30-45 / 40 - 55 / 50 - 65 (pick the group that's most appropriate for you).

Party Nights

We love a party at Solo Connects and throughout the year, we aim to host different themed party nights so that you can dance the night away with fabulous singles.

Open to all ages.

Dating for 25 - 45's

Looking for LOVE? We bring the Solo Connects magic to young people from 25 - 45 at our fantastic Singles Nights. Age guidance: 25 (ish) to (strictly) 45.

Coffee & Cake

Monthly Coffee & Cake events include a free optional walk - you can even bring your dog. A great way to get comfortable meeting people for the first time - it's definitely more friendship vibes (not dating vibes).

Solo Connects Membership

Our membership has turned out to be THE BEST social club. We offer a monthly Members Lounge - we’ve done fire walking, karaoke, watched live bands…and we’ve got more planned!

One Night. Two Incredible Parties!

Solos Summer Party

We’re going bigger, bolder, and hotter than ever for Summer 2026.

On Saturday 6th June, Solo Connects is bringing you not one… but TWO incredible parties in one unforgettable day.

This isn’t just another singles event.
This is a full-on summer experience — SOLO style.

💥 Two completely different party vibes in ONE day

❤️ Hundreds of singles in one place

🍸 Relaxed, social, no-pressure atmosphere

🕺 The Day Disco Party (3PM – 7PM)
Sunshine, drinks, and all your favourite cheesy tunes & party classics. Think feel-good vibes, dancing, and effortless daytime flirting.

✨ The Ibiza White Party (8PM – 12AM)
Turn up the heat as we take you into the night with Ibiza anthems & dance classics. Dress to impress, all white everything, and pure summer party energy.

Where: The Brickyard, Bletchley, Milton Keynes

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Not sure about dating? Just looking...?

You’ve been in the Facebook group for a while now.
You read the posts.
You watch the photos go up of everyone having fun at the Solo Connects events.

You tell yourself, “Maybe next time.”

You're not sure how to navigate single life. Dating apps don’t feel right and staying home scrolling just makes your single status even worse.

You miss adult conversation. You miss laughter. You miss feeling like you, not just a parent or someone’s ex.

And yet… the thought of walking into a room of strangers feels terrifying.

Am I ready for dating?

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Solo Connects? Who's bright idea was that?

Solo Connects was set up by two single mums and business owners in Milton Keynes. Samantha Poole and Rachel Allen were sick of the swipe and knew they could build a fun and vibrant community for single people who wanted to connect with like-minded people.

Solo Connects is for people who are done with awkward dating apps and ghosting. We bring real people together in real life, because finding love (or a fun night out with friends) shouldn't be this hard.

It’s a ready-made social network for solo people in

Herts, Beds, Bucks, and Northants.

No more 'flying solo' - let's GO!!

Find out more about Solo Connects!

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